As the holiday season is already upon us, many families are organizing reunions and dinners to celebrate with all. Of course, this includes the big Thanksgiving dinner, usually celebrated with immediate family, or close family-friends.Yes, it’s all common knowledge… But have you ever heard of Friendsgiving? It’s exactly what it sounds like. This modern day spin on Thanksgiving is commonly celebrated with a group of friends, hence the name. Each person is responsible for bringing a dish to share similar to a potluck. For many, friends are often just as close as family, so it only makes sense to celebrate a holiday giving thanks for the people you’re thankful for with your friends.

Now, not everyone is familiar with the concept of Friendsgiving, or how to successfully host one. Well, the Blueprint’s got you covered! Follow these steps to host your very own Friendsgiving:

Step 1: Put together invitation list

Preferably a group of friends who are all well-acquainted to avoid any awkward tension in the air.

Step 2: Schedule a date and time

Friendsgiving is typically celebrated on the Wednesday before or the Friday after Thanksgiving day, since Thanksgiving is usually reserved for family gatherings. But, if you prefer, feel free to have yours on the actual day of the holiday.

Step 3: Assign dishes/desserts

Main courses, side dishes, drinks, desserts. This doesn’t have to include all the traditional foods. Adjust the menu to your preference. We recommend making a spreadsheet or chart of some kind to keep organized.

Step 4: Establish the minor details

Discuss attire. Causual? Formal? Semi-formal? Are you planning to color coordinate?

Also, make sure that everyone is aware of how much food to bring and recognize any food allergies.

Step 5: Show up and have a great time!

Try not to stress too much. Enjoy the company of your closest friends and acknowledge your gratitude for all of them!

Don’t let the mold of the traditional Thanksgiving Dinner hinder you. A Thanksgiving dinner can be more than the classic green bean casserole, or turkey stuffing, depending on the various cultures that celebrate the holiday. If your friend group consists of different ethnic backgrounds, try introducing each other to your favorite cultural dish! A dessert maybe? A side dish? Decide if the event is’ Instagrammable’? Should you all match for pictures? Should aestheticism outshine taste? Is everyone coming early and cooking all together? Customize this Friendsgiving holiday and make it your own!

Appreciate the great relationships you and your friends share. Everyone brings their own unique traits to a group and this Friendsgiving holiday is to be thankful for just that. Share your love, your gratitude, and especially your food this holiday.